How to Choose the Perfect Menu

How to Choose the Perfect Event Menu: Weddings or Social & Corporate Events
No matter what kind of event you’re planning—whether it’s the wedding of your dreams, a high-energy party, or a polished corporate gathering—one central truth holds: you’re feeding a group of people. And feeding a crowd isn’t just about food; it’s about experience, expression, and accommodation. The menu you choose sets the tone, tells a story, and becomes a lasting memory. So how do you begin narrowing down the options?
Let’s break it down, comparing key considerations between weddings and other social or corporate events.
Start with the Basics: Know Your Audience
Before diving into specific dishes, think about who you’re feeding.
- Are your guests mostly local or traveling from afar? Local guests may be familiar with certain regional flavors, while out-of-town guests might appreciate something with a sense of place—or a culinary adventure.
- Are they adventurous or traditional eaters? You may want to strike a balance between crowd-pleasing staples and a few creative flourishes.
- Are there widespread dietary preferences or restrictions? For groups with many vegetarians, gluten-free eaters, or other considerations, it’s essential to build inclusivity into your menu. Many caterers offer mains and sides that are naturally vegetarian, vegan, or gluten-free as part of their featured menu.
From here, the style and structure of your event begins to shape the menu.
Seasonal Savvy: Let the Time of Year Guide You
A spring soirée, a summer wedding, a fall fundraiser, or a winter holiday party all offer different culinary opportunities.
- In warmer months, opt for lighter, brighter flavors. Think fresh herbs, grilled vegetables, citrusy dressings, and chilled seafood.
- In colder months, lean into comfort: braised meats, creamy risottos, root vegetables, and warming spices.
Choosing foods in season not only enhances flavor and presentation but also can be more cost-effective and sustainable.
Wedding Menus: A Reflection of You
When planning your wedding menu, you face a delightful dilemma: Do you pick food that everyone will love, or food that you love? The truth is, there’s room for both.
A wedding is uniquely personal. It’s the ultimate expression of your taste—literally. If you and your partner are die-hard sushi lovers or have a favorite comfort food, there’s no reason it can’t make an appearance. But consider how to present it in a way that feels celebratory and accessible. It could be passed hors d’oeuvres or a late-night snack station.
Social & Corporate Events: Experience is Everything
Unlike weddings, social and corporate events often emphasize variety and interaction. Food stations are an increasingly popular choice, and for good reason:
- They allow guests to explore different cuisines or themes—Italian, Asian, BBQ, Mediterranean—all in one night.
- They’re more accommodating for dietary needs.
- They create moments of movement and mingling, which enhance the overall experience.
Service Styles: Plated, Buffet, Family-Style, or Stations?
The format in which food is served dramatically influences your guest experience and logistics. Here’s a quick breakdown:
Plated
- Best for: Formal weddings and smaller guest lists (ideally under 120).
- Pros: Elegant presentation, timed service.
- Cons: Challenging to serve simultaneously; guests may wait.
Buffet
- Best for: Mid-sized to large weddings, social events.
- Pros: Generous portions, more options.
- Cons: Can seem less formal, though charcuterie or salad platters at tables can elevate the experience and ease wait times.
Family-Style
- Best for: Intimate weddings or rustic, communal vibes.
- Pros: Encourages sharing, blends formality with warmth.
- Cons: Can clutter tables, especially if you have elaborate centerpieces or tablescapes.
Stations
- Best for: Social and corporate events; some receptions.
- Pros: Interactive, customizable, great for dietary variety.
- Cons: Requires more space and setup.
The Imperia Experience: Making It All Come Together
At Imperia, your culinary journey begins with your venue booking. From there, an initial consultation sets the stage for your entire event, since we are a full-service venue. You’ll receive a full timeline, including your seasonal tasting date—an opportunity to sample seasonal favorites and make your selections.
After the tasting, you can mix and match from both seasonal and full menus. Your final choices are due 10 days before the event, allowing just enough time to refine and perfect your menu.
Final Tips for Narrowing Down Your Menu
- Start with the season. What’s fresh and vibrant?
- Think about balance. Rich entrées need lighter sides; heavy apps pair well with crisp salads.
- Picture your plate. Color and texture matter, especially in photos.
- Trust your caterer. Their experience—and favorites—can steer you toward the most successful choices.
Lisa, Sales and Event Manager at Imperia, shares a recent wedding consultation:
“My clients were torn between cremini mushroom risotto cakes and lemon ricotta ravioli with fresh peas for a side. I asked what their entrees were—steak and cod. Since those are both brown in tone, I suggested the ravioli. It’s summer, and the peas and greens really brighten the plate. Plus, it’s delicious!”
JJ, Sales and Event Manager at Imperia, says:
“My favorite appetizer is our BLT Bites. They’re bite-sized, fun, and light. But for sides, I love the wonton-wrapped loaded baked potatoes. It’s comforting and innovative at the same time.”
At the end of the day, whether you’re planning an unforgettable wedding meal or a high-energy evening of mingling, your menu should reflect your event’s tone, taste, and personality. And remember—no one forgets great food.
Need help customizing your menu? The team at Imperia is always happy to guide you. From initial consultation to the final bite, we’re here to help you craft something deliciously unforgettable. Check out our menus and reach out with questions!

Danielle is one half of the wife-and-wife duo that owns and operates Imperia Lake Union. With a myriad of experience, from a degree & experience in French Baking & Pastry to a many-year history in nonprofit development & fundraising, Danielle brings a unique perspective to events. Most of all, she loves to throw parties – bringing with it a keen eye for the goal, the guest experience, and the food!